Relationships? Youth will always get it wrong!

I have been asking myself  a couple of questions one being the reason as to why one has to ‘kiss a bunch of frogs’ before bumping on the queen/king of her/his life. Where and why do we get it wrong in the first place?well, methinks it starts with the wrong intention, lack of purpose, and a genuinely different approach of the same as far as the other person is concerned.I ask myself, why would in need to be in a relationship? Is it because my peers are dating, or are getting married, or they have that someone they are seeing or because of love or why?
Typically according to me, a relationship whose main aim is not marriage is of no good to anyone. Why would i be in a relationship with a lady and i know very well that it aint taking us to marriage? What is the importance of such a relationship? What do i need it for?
Many people get and especially the youth get it wrong here. Wanting to be in a relationship for the sake of it. Or because others and in this case your friends are in relationships. That’s a very bad zeal that will instead plunge you  into a series of problems and once you do that forget about peace and happiness-joy. The latter will be history to you.
We will always have pretty girls, handsome men, educated girls, from rich backgrounds, rich men, with all the qualities that ladies prey for, ‘blessed ladies’ that men dream of and so on and so forth.
So whats a relationship? The answer to this is pretty simple,  a relationship is made up of two people,a man and a woman who love each other and are ready to live with each other for the rest of their lives no-matter what life throws at them.
It is about a commitment, whereby you have to take the other one the way they are, for who they are because you love them and you need them in your life.that’s it. nothing more nothing less. But what do we see each and every other day?Relationships breaking a window period and institutions(marriages) ending every other morning bitterly.
So why? My first paragraph answers this well.
Boys and Girls get into relationships for the right reasons.